who is she who is that gril 主语是那个

who is she who is that gril 主语是那个
有的同学说都是 who .有的说,she ,和that的.
不过看到薄冰语法书有一个例句,正好一样.说的也是who 是主格,该在句中做主语.
.是想我一个同学说的么：英语跟汉语思维的方式不同么 》呵呵.